Step Off The Scale…Grab A Tape Measure

Especially if you are just starting a workout routine. You can lose inches, body fat, and gain muscle without changing the number on the scale and Jenn is proof of that! Muscle is much denser than fat and takes up less space. Think of 5 pounds of styrofoam vs 5 pounds of dry peas. Peas are lovely and so is muscle.

Build more metabolically active tissue to consume all those calories, even at rest. More muscle means better health and improved overall fitness levels.

Now back to my Rock Star Client, Jenn.  As we continue our journey, I just had to share her progress with you all. Below is from Jenn’s Facebook post. I know you have heard it before, but making lifestyle changes is a process. A journey of self-discovery. Jenn trains and meets with me once a week. Each and every week, we work on a piece of the new and improved methods for getting healthy and maintaining health. Our sessions cover Jenn’s workouts, macros, dietary plans, and the safety of each exercise in her program. Our assessments of lifestyle habits help to make behavioral, nutritional, and other changes that promote better health and overall wellness. We create custom-tailored plans for a well-rounded routine. I am loving getting to know Jenn and her adorable son (when he’s not at school). I am beyond excited to work with such an amazing soul!

Flex Friday!

Jenn’s Facebook Post

My body changed so much after 40 – especially w the baby, who is now almost six 😳- and if I had a nickel for everyone who told me as I surpassed 220#’s that I’d never get my body back, The Boy wouldn’t need a college fund – truly, I don’t really care about having a “body” anymore, I mean, I have a man who loves me at 200+#’s (thank you honey, @big_tom_otto ), but being fit and being able to keep up and get up off the floor easily and not have my knees and shoulders and elbows hurt all the time; this.

And having the energy to have a good attitude when things come up that would normally piss a person off; this, too. And knowing I’m making deposits into an account I’ll surely be withdrawing from when I’m 70, just like my retirement fund but for health, not wealth; this, three! But mostly, looking at myself and liking what I see looking back for the first time in six years; especially and unequivocally, that!

I don’t have time to pack a bag and go to the gym and work out and then shower and change and pack up and get back in the car to drive home or work or wherever…My feet hurt from shoes and I didn’t want to invest in another pair of pricy sneakers. I didn’t want to buy equipment or videos or any other dust collectors. I also didn’t think I could afford what I wanted, which was Oprah’s trainer and chef, (we’re being real here).

I wouldn’t trust anyone trying to sell me something here. And I know I can sound salesy when I believe in something. So. Hopefully, for Kathy’s sake, I haven’t lost you. But really. It’s not impossible, it’s not a gimmick and it’s not cost prohibitive if you’re already spending $$ on healthclubs and classes. In fact, it’s more cost efficient because it’s customized – all pfat, no filler 😜”

Consistency Over Perfection.

Remember, health and fitness is a journey. This is why taking pictures, measurements, and journaling are all forms of tracking progress. They can be very motivating when you’re having a hard day. Below is a text Jenn sent me along with some pictures after I suggested she go back to her before pictures. She was pleased to see that she had lost “back fat” and the timing of that was perfect.

“It’s such a mind game, ignoring the number on the scale; all that work and sweat and I still weigh what?! It took these pics lined up side by side for me to really see it. It’s working. In my own time, on my own terms, with what I already have. #mytrainerlive” -Jenn

Work on the following if you are an emotional eater or if you find yourself feeling up or down each time you step on the scale.

Work on becoming a conscious eater. Breathe and count to 30 before starting your meal. Slow down. Eating fast can contribute to poor digestion and a host of health problems. “Eating more slowly may be a crucial lifestyle change to help prevent metabolic syndrome,” said Takayuki Yamaji, M.D., study author and cardiologist at Hiroshima University in Japan.

  • Focus on real information about yourself like: I am feeling better about my food choices and moving towards a more authentic and healthy relationship with food.
  • Find other ways to measure your successes like how your clothes are fitting. Who cares if the scale is the same when you just lost an inch off your waist! Grab a tape measure. Balance your life.
  • Make health your main goal because what good is 10 pounds on the scale when you haven’t learned anything? New lifestyles habits will keep the weight falling off in due time. Be patience because the slower you take it off, the more likely it will stay off.

CONGRATULATIONS JENN! You inspire so many!

Kathy Dolan, ACE Fitness Pro, Health Coach, Personal Trainer, Yoga Instructor, is a self-employed business owner. Kathy Dolan is a master trainer with years of experience with the secrets to real results! You will find her teaching and training on the Class It Up Virtual Studio and writing health and fitness programs for clients of all ages. She enjoys spending time with her three kids whether it’s in the mountains or on the seashore. 

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Unsupportive Family & Friends: How to Deal

When a client comes to me, ready to make big changes in their life, so many times they are met with a complete lack of support from friends and sadly, even their very own family members. This can be heartbreaking and hurtful. Live your truth and stay on the path. Put your energy into the positive things. Take care of yourself. This can be one of the hardest things for some to deal with. Don’t back down, as your health, fitness and well-being matters. Living your best life with passion, goals, and dreams can spark jealousy, criticism, and fear in others. This is your life, your journey. You are not alone. Sometimes the ones closet to your heart can be really unkind. Get the support you deserve. Surround yourself with the people who support your growth and freely give you love and positivity.
My Experience:
I am one of seven children. I live furthest from the home base. Living in sunny California, I sometimes feel isolated from the everyday connections out in the Midwest with the family. I share the entrepreneurial drive with many of my siblings, yet I am the only one that is in the fitness and coaching field. Being a mom to three kids, you are constantly fighting with following your passion and being the best mom for your family. I have had resistance, negativity, “blocks,” and “unfollows,” even sabotages from exes. I’ve learned to grow from it and use the negativity to drive me in the direction of my goals. My philosophy is that if you can’t be supportive, please kindly leave the party.
How to Deal:
Keep your chin up, buttercup. When things get rough, grab that bar and start pulling for your life, your dreams, your goals. Pull really hard with all you’ve got. There have been times in my career where I am leading an exercise class and my body hurts, my heart hurts. But in the back of my mind, I am saying, “Thank God I am alive, thank God I am healthy.” Exercise has been my saving grace more times than I can count, and it has become an automated response to stress. When you’re starting to feel outward attacks from friends and family stacking up, and you can’t stop thinking about it, that’s a sign to go workout. In fact, exercise has been scientifically proven to boost the stress relief hormones, “If you exercise-especially right when the stress response is triggered-you burn off stress hormones just as nature intended, instead of letting them pile up” (Harvard Health Publishing. “Exercise Is an Effective Stress-Buster – Harvard Health.” Harvard Health Blog, www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/exercise-is-an-effective-stress-buster). I even apply this method with my kids. They know me well enough that when I say, “We’ll talk about this after I workout,” to let me. It’s always a better outcome when you hit the pause button. This can be applied to all areas in life whether it’s your marriage, workplace, kids, or any relationship for that matter. As your body moves, whether it’s dancing, yoga, running, walking, weights, kickboxing, or swimming, it will allow you to clear space in your mind to pray and meditate.
Drop to your knees, pray, and call one of your SUPPORTIVE friends or family members, There are plenty of people out there that support you, so draw towards them in a time of need. They know you best and can give you good advice and perspective. These people in life are your squad, the bond is authentic. You can’t do this alone.
You’ve exercised, you’ve prayed, you’ve called your best friend, and yet when you lay your head on that pillow, your mind is still racing a mile a minute. When things get this overwhelming, go write everything in a journal. Get the pen to the paper and write down every thought, every emotion, good, bad or ugly. Think of it as detoxing on paper. Sometimes the answers may come, sometimes they won’t, but make an action plan. Ask for God’s help, and get some rest, sleeping beauty. You got some ass-kicking to do tomorrow.
-Kathy Dolan
Kathy Dolan, ACE Fitness Pro, Health Coach, Personal Trainer, Yoga Instructor, is a self-employed business owner. You will find her teaching and training on the Class It Up Virtual Studio and writing health and fitness programs for clients of all ages. She enjoys spending time with her three kids whether it’s in the mountains or on the seashore. 
 
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